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However, right now I am feeling quite inclined to 'church shop'. I see your point about excelling in diversity, and not being reduced to a unique distinctive trait--but it's a struggle when the rest of the group seems quite happy to be monocultural/monoexperiential/monofocused, but it doesn't seem to fit with my personal/corporate purpose. Perhaps part of my local situation has been made worse by being very pastor-led, with basically no input from any other source. That would tend to attract people who 'fit' with his particular vision, and not attract others who would contribute to the mosaic. I can certainly see how this has contributed to the consumeristic method of church growth.
Thanks for the encouragement to loyalty, but I continue to weigh both my options and responsibilities.
I think this line highlights the difficulty raised here (which both commenters also allude to). You write of commitment to the Church, Bryn, the Body of Christ, but then immediately refer that commitment to a particular local church (the one we happen to be attending now?). That doesn't necessarily follow, and very often commitment to institutional churches (divided, narrowly-defined "bodies") can get in the way of commitment to the one Church.
Also, commitment to the Body of Christ does not rule out changing churches, but even perhaps justifies it at times, since there is only one Church, and it is a great good to be able to go to another church and find the same Body there, which we are already a part of.
This doesn't mean we should be constantly changing, of course (which is an avoidance technique). But it challenges the line of thinking that each church is its own body, that there are many bodies with many "faces" (many heads?), which is the common understanding and quite wrong. Ultimately attempting to substitute our many, divided church institutions for the Body. But there is only one Body.
this was one thing that i was really trying to navagate closely in writing this article. i agree with you that really we are part of One Body, amd our loyalty to this one body comes before our commitment to the congregations we happen to be a part of.
that being said, i still think that radical committment to the congregations we are a part of is of often over looked importance. that's what i think i was really trying to get at. There are ok reasons to leave one congregation for another, but those choices should be made in careful, attentive discernment through the holy spirit. Not comsumeristically or arbitrarily. How can we expect to be committed to the One Body if we don't first know how to be committed to the group of people who make up the Body of Chirst to us on a daily basis?
And I agree, as long as our commitment is to love those real people, valuing those real relationships. But so often the commitment (in church membership ceremonies, for instance) is not to those real people but to "the church," the organization, the institution. The actual people involved in the church keep changing, different people move into and out of the pews and the various leadership roles, but we are supposed to keep our same commitment to the institution and relate to the leadership in the same way because the roles (the offices, the titles) are the same, though the actual people have changed.
So is our commitment to love, which can only be in actual relationships with real people, and in obedience to the one God Who is Love, or is our commitment to the abstract institution, with its own definition of membership, its own group identity, and its own dogma, all determined by agreement of the people in that group?
Last summer I tried to re-think my relationship to our local church in light of Benedictine stability, only to have this derailed by an opportunity we felt was from the Lord -- I felt a little like Jephthah, though fortunately I didn't have to sacrifice any of my children. But there was a sense that God was having fun at the expense of my pretensions. Anyway, as much as I think my sensibilities are more Benedictine than Fransciscan, more community-based than peripatetic, my life as actually lived has been that of a tent-dweller, moving with the pillar of fire.
Still, I think you're exactly right: we need a sense of commitment to one another -- not,(just to be clear) to community as an abstraction, but to the real people God has put into our lives. And doesn't it often seem that these are not the ones we'd choose for ourselves?
Excellent references to Merton and Weil, Ted. But the Franciscans were also community-based, you know, always coming back to their small community houses after a day of peripat... wandering around. Nice reference to the Exodus as well, a story that meant a lot to me during my years on the road.
And I agree about commitment to real people. But the Benedictine ideal (and vow) of stability doesn't seem to me to come from Jesus, but is their own development with (at least in my understanding) questionable intentions. (For more go here: "conflicting commitments") I can see how the stability idea might appeal to people today, but I don't think it helps us to follow Jesus very well. I mean, look at the way of life he chose for himself and his disciples...
I don't think we are called to multiple commitments, but one commitment: to love. Which is the commitment to God Who is Love, to obeying God, which means loving others (real people) as God inspires us to. This encompasses marriage also, as well as community life. But not through various commitments to each of these (and many others, which necessarily end up conflicting with each other for our time and loyalty), but through the one, single-minded, undivided commitment, to the Body, to Christ himself.
I'm not willing to throw the Benedictines under the bus. They're part of our history, and we can learn from them. And I'm inclined to agree with Berry (and Benedict) that a commitment to local communities might, given our cultural condition, be good for us. I'm not sure being able to map this onto the literal details of Jesus' ministry model is as important as you're making it, so I don't see where the idea of conflicting commitments really comes in.
The way the Jerusalem community organized itself in Acts 2 doesn't look to me like a carbon copy of Jesus' ministry. What we know about Ephesus doesn't look like either one of those. And so on. These, too were experiments that we can learn from. In keeping with your point about the primacy of love, when Paul and John critique various local communities, they don't seem to do so on the basis that the believers in those communities failed to follow Jesus' wandering model of ministry, but for failure to model Jesus' example of self-sacrificial love.
While commitment to a local community can get in the way (so, too, can marriage), I don't think it does so inherently. Maybe using the word "commitment" is problematic? I don't think it needs to be. Marriage and church life can both be crucibles for growing in this kind of love, and avenues for expressing this kind of love, which of course should extend beyond the marriage relationship and the local community.
Maybe Bryn meant something more, but when I speak of commitment to such things, I don't mean an uncritical fealty that even God can't trump, but a way of steeling ourselves against too-quickly abandoning such opportunities to work out (sacramentally, perhaps?) what it looks like to love in this way -- what our undivided loyalty to Christ looks like on the ground.
It's probably also worth mentioning what I observed in an urban community near Chicago, which has been located in the same neighborhood for over fifty years. They were very intentional in their commitment to that place and the people there. But something odd happened. Though the intentional community remains, almost all of the people have changed, and even the neighborhood is vastly different. The institution (organization, "corporation") stayed the same, but the vast majority of the people in membership came and left over the years, and the surrounding neighbors also changed, the neighborhood becoming more and more gentrified (due in large part to their nurturing) so that it is no longer a challenging, needy area but a comfortable, suburban one. Weird, huh? A few of them were committed to stability but most everyone (and everything) around them was not, so their work and goals and even structure also had to keep changing.
So who are they (and we) committed to? An organization, whose actual members (the real people) keep changing? A place, that never stays the same even if we try to? You see what I mean? Did Jesus teach this kind of un-stable stability?
I agree about marriage. I think Paul wrote too starkly when he said marriage means being torn between pleasing your spouse and pleasing God. But I think it is a serious temptation. And, yes, I think it's the "commitment" part that is problematic. We promise our spouse one thing, and our boss another, and our church, and our kids, and pretty soon there are all these demands that we don't have enough time to possibly fulfill, and tensions over who has priority, with each demanding we honor our commitment. Each of these certainly can (and does) demand more of us than there is to go around. But God doesn't. He only asks of us what we can do and what is right and loving for us to do to everyone involved, which he determines. And he offers us one focus, "follow me."
I agree that this love (living our commitment to God) happens in real, long-term relationships and communities. And interacting with them helps us learn what love really means. But they never define love, even if we make agreements or commitments (social contracts?) with them; only God defines love. At best, they can help us understand the God Who is Love so we can obey him together.
In the many "bodies," the identity and rules and membership are decided by the agreement of the people involved. But not so in the one Body.
Where did the bit about social contracts come from (besides Rousseau, whom I did not invoke), or deciding identity, rules and membership? Perhaps these are things you feel automatically come along for the ride that are problematic? I guess I'm not sure why they came up. To me, these things are ancillary to community.
Lastly, where do I find this one Body? In all our conversations, I've been a bit fuzzy about that.
Yes, the references to contracts and rules and identity and membership were not directed at you, Ted. But I think they are always a part of churches, the local "bodies" we form and institutionalize. Marks that distinguish them from the one Body.
People often ask me, "where is this Body"? Usually they ask challengingly, but sometimes honestly, curiously. Maybe the best answer is the one Jesus gave: I found the Body in that community in Chicago, and here at the farm. Also in hundreds of churches and homes I visited all across the country. In individuals with a common spirit, the one Spirit, but also in gatherings where that spirit was seen in long-term, interwoven relationships. But you can never say "there it is," because the gathering, the membership, the institutional community you can point to always includes much that is not the Body, and excludes many (not just by locality but by identity and creed and membership) that are part of the Body.
Notice I use "the kingdom of God" and "the Body" interchangeably. They exist throughout and mixed in with our organizations and structures, never depending on them (or limited by them), usually in spite of them, like Jesus and his disciples' activity in the midst of the Jewish temple and the Roman empire.
Where the members of the Body are, the Body is there.
In my haste, I had forgotten about it. Please disregard my (now erased) line of inquiry that failed to take that into account.
This is true enough, but I stubbornly use "community" to refer to what grows in and around and often in spite of the apparatus the ostensibly defines it. In teaching writing, for instance, I make reference to "discourse communities," in which the unwritten and often unacknowledged conventions of discourse are much more interesting than any specific structures.
I'll be more careful with certain words in the future. :)
Now, I don't think that hopping between your local congregations means that you are in effect being unfaithful to The Church. However, if you love those folks that you see every Sunday, then you won't take switching churches lightly.
There are plenty of times when we might feel neglected, offended, or just plain hurt by policies of or incidents that occurred at our local church. And these things might continue to occur so that if you weren't offended at first, your emotions will eventually be overcome by these perceived wrong-doings.
Now, if you don't feel love towards these folks who are inflicting wrong or are standing by seemingly complacent and uncaring, switching to a different congregation might seem appealing. It's easy to just walk away and leave the bastards to their own destruction.
But what I got out of this article was that, if you love someone (and that includes the members of your current congregation), you will reach out to them with love. This involves communication, care, sensitivity, and compassion. In my family, when my brothers - or even my parents, for that matter - do something that hurts me, or when they start acting stupid, I let them know. I do my best not to hurt their feelings, or blast them with negative comments, but I stick around long enough to get my point across and talk it out with them.
I am constantly learning, and something that I am slowly realizing is that if you want to change the world, you have to start at home.
Stability for stability sake, just as change for the sake of change, is pointless and self-serving. However to claim faithfulness to the Church while skipping around from church to church is like claiming faithfulness to marriage while going from spouse to spouse. Stanley Hauerwas wrote something to the effect, and I'm afraid I can't cite a reference, that divorce is so tempting because after a trial run one thinks one then knows what to expect and can get it right the next time. I also heard on NPR or 60 minutes or something a little while back the reason so many single 30-somethings remain uncommitted is because they believe, even if in a relationship, they can always find someone better.
Paul, the Apostle, may not have been a member of any specific congregation, though he did stay put while learning the Gospel. Jesus moved around so much because he had a mission to spread the Good News; the disciples were commissioned to do the same. But the people of the Church at Corinth or the Church at Ephesus, or Thesolenika, or Galatia, with some exceptions, I'm sure, were pretty stable as a community. Of course there were no other denominations to choose from and it wouldn't have been so easy just to leave the Church at Corinth to join the Church in Rome. We know those early Christians had to become terribly faithful and committed to each other, otherwise they might end up in the local arena with some hungry lions. We might not have to worry about lions today, but my fear is that transient congregants smack too sharply of the Churches at Laodicea or even Sardis. Jesus, though on the move, did retain a committed and stable group with him (even with their foibles, perhaps more committed than any of us).
Let me do say that any commitment of church membership IS done within the context of serving Christ. I know there are churches who's membership is very committed to one another, but are more like social clubs than witnesses to the Word of God. There have certainly been marriages of convenience rather than honest dedication. And there are times when both may be dissolved, but with great caution and discernment and as much publicity as their beginnings.
It's a messy business, human relationships and, honestly, being sanctified by God doesn't make them any easier.
Also the church (the Body, the kingdom of God) was presented by Jesus, not as a result of fallen humanity, but as the life of eternity made available to us now (as Dorothy Day used to say, "Eternal life begins now"). It was the life Jesus himself lived. Of course our "churches" are disappointing, as you say. But that's not because the church is merely a provisional "foretaste," but because our churches are not the one church, the Body. Where the Body exists, it is neither labor intensive nor even a little bit disappointing.
You make good points about the temptations of divorce and the hesitancy to commit. And obviously "skipping around from church to church" is not right, not what we are called to do. But there are many reasons for changing churches that are not "skipping around." It is a great good, part of the miracle of the Body of Christ, that we can move from one gathering of Christians to another (if called to do so by God) and find the same spirit, the one Body, there as well. Jesus' itinerancy shows the amazing breadth and flexibility of the kingdom of God, which no institution (church or otherwise) can come close to matching.
As I wrote earlier in this discussion, stability is not the point (and it can be quite a distraction if we are seeking that primarily). Our focus should be on staying connected to the one Body (which is Christ himself). This is both the source of real love of real people, and provides a stability that transcends anything we can accomplish by committing to some place or communal organization.
Actually it is not something we can accomplish at all (in that sense, it is not "intentional" community). We can only accept the invitation of Jesus and be welcomed into his Body, as a gift to us.
As such, they are hardly personal expressions of romance or praise. Rather they are fixed within a context of community. In marriage, the community has a very real benefit to the success of the union in the provision and upbringing of offspring and a more stable society. In the Church, again the community has a very real benefit to the success of the union. We all seem to agree that stability can be misleading. Perhaps accountability is the word we should use to describe the necessity of devoted communal relationships. In accountability we loose some of our imagined freedom, or selfishness, and in submission to each other in fact grow to a higher freedom. I'm not saying this is anything we accomplish, but you bet your bottom dollar it's labor intensive. And because we are in this present darkness, we will be disappointed, just, hopefully, not to the point of despair. That's when another good word might come into play: endurance; not self-suffering drudgery, but sharing each others' burdens.
There is nothing diminutive about foretaste or illustration. Jesus gave a foretaste at Cana and used illustrations all the time in his parables. They point to the Kingdom though they, themselves, are not the Kingdom. Likewise the Body points to the Kingdom and marriage illustrates restoration, but both exist in the context of this era of the fall. The Kingdom is, indeed, among us, but the chaos of our present state keeps us looking through a mirror dimly. Disappointment results from our own idealistic images. Labor may be intensive, but, speaking as an organic gardener, in the endeavor of devotion, is not without reward.
I can agree about the importance of accountability. But "In accountability we loose some of our imagined freedom, or selfishness, and in submission to each other in fact grow to a higher freedom"? I don't think so. Maybe this is a difference in our understanding of what "submission" means precisely (which has been discussed elsewhere here), but when you put "accountability" and "submission" together with "to each other" and "in community" it sure sounds like you're saying that we should give up our freedom and submit our will to the will of other human beings. And I don't think Jesus ever taught that.
We gain freedom through submitting our will to the will of God, which should never be confused with the "will" of any human group. Our accountability is always to God. Submitting our will to the will of the community, represented by leaders or vote or consensus, is only one more instance of "submitting again to the yoke of slavery." God never suppresses the individual but gives each of us greater freedom, while our humanly-instituted groups again and again suppress the individual for "the good of the community."
Also, I don't quite see how you make sense of this: "I'm not saying this is anything we accomplish, but you bet your bottom dollar it's labor intensive." What is this labor for, if it's not work to accomplish something? Again, the unity and love of the one Body is not our work, or a burden laid on us, depending on our efforts, but a complete, miraculous gift from God. Building our humanly defined and humanly organized "bodies," on the other hand, demands relentless work and is a burden, a heavy weight meant to press us into submission.
First of all, there is nothing inherently Christian or Jewish (or Muslim or Buddhist or whatever, for that matter) about marriage. The Church uses a social construct to illustrate restored humanity, which only serves to bless the institution and hold it to an exemplary standard.
Nowhere did I say we must submit to the "will" of others, but if Jesus' washing of the disciples feet is not submission, I don't know what is, yet the Servant King is the model of freedom.
My reference to accomplishment was to your statement that the Body is the source of real love greater than any accomplishment of ours. I agree, but the Body is US. We are the Body of Christ! I do not mean to imply that the Body has realized itself entirely faithfully as the institution of the Church, but it remains the Church. Labor can still be sweet and disappointment, enlightening, for His yoke is easy and His burden light and James' letter seems to argue for the faithfulness of labor (don't dare assume I mean any kind of nonsense Protestant work ethic).
Poor Bryn must be pulling his hair out by now, if he's still reading these responses to his original thoughts. Let me add, finally, that dreaming about eternal life (which I do not suggest Ms. Day frittered away doing) and longing for some pie-in-the-sky Christiology (which I do not mean to suggest you do, Paul) denies the Word of God active and militant in the world now and in it's state of chaos. If God is not Emmanuel, what is the Gospel? Day was a devout Catholic, to my knowledge, and very rooted in society and community and I don't think her movement is called "Worker" for nothing.
If you think I've mis-characterized your words, Chris, feel free to correct me. If it's not clear to me what you mean, I usually say something like "it sounds like you're saying...," as I did above. And I have to say that your language is pretty vague and you seem comfortable using words in ways other than the common usage, without explanation. So that may contribute to my misunderstanding you. For example, you have not been clear about what you mean by "submission," a word that has been commonly used to mean "obedience" (as in "submit to our authority"), even in Christian communal circles. The example of Jesus washing feet still doesn't make it very clear; do you mean "humble" or "service"...? He was actually doing something that they didn't want, with Peter strongly resisting. So how do you see this as submission?
As I understand it from Paul's descriptions of the Body, if the church is not faithful, then it is not being the Body (for example, the Body is not divided but always one, because Christ cannot be divided against himself—yet churches are often divided). This is not nitpicking. We should be committed and faithful to the Body, but faithfulness to church institutions (particularly when they are not being the Body) is not asked of us. We may even be called, in faithfulness to the Body, to reject or attack the institutional church at times when it claims to be what it is not. Soren Kierkegaard's "Attack on Christendom" comes to mind, but there are countless other examples.
This, I think, directly applies to the point of Bryn's article, doesn't it?
I don't think Chris is the only person to use "submission" in this way, just as I don't think I'm the only one who uses "community" without the institutional baggage you want to attach to it. I think your anti-institutional bias is so strong that you are reading dark undertones into these words (and words like "responsibility" -- if you need to link to your own blog for us to understand your reaction to a given word, I submit that the linguistic peculiarity is yours) that are unintended. It's as though we can barely bring up the church without a stark warning from our resident prophet about the dangers of group dynamics, or a rejoinder that the local church is not the One Body.
Although it makes a certain amount of sense to recognize that a group of people who profess belief are not necessarily the body of Christ, or that a given group can fail to be or even cease to be the body of Christ, Paul does not argue in this manner. He tells the believers to whom he writes that they are the body of Christ, and he adjures them to comport themselves in a particular way on the basis of that identity and calling, and not from possibility that they might cease to be the body. Even when the issue is prostitution, Paul does not say "If you do this, you won't be the body anymore," but "Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never!" Paul argues from the Church's identity as the body -- even at Corinth.
"Submission to the needs of the other" makes more sense to me. Though, again, I think that needs to be explained, since that is not the common usage of that word, and "submission" has been used so very often (by Christians!) to suppress and abuse the individual, those in the minority, and the weak (slaves, women, the illiterate, etc). Also, it still leaves the question: How are these "needs" determined? By the one receiving help, by what they ask of us? (As I pointed out before, Peter resisted Jesus' footwashing, but Jesus insisted he needed it.) By the community? The leaders? I would say that it is God who knows and decides what is best for us, and it is in submission to God that we best respond to the real needs of those around us.
You raise a good point about my sensitivity about group dynamics and the evils of institutions (if anyone's interested, I tried to explain my reasons for it in the article "Are we the people?"). But I don't think I automatically spout "Woe!" every time the church is mentioned. Only when it seems that submission or commitment to some human group is being pushed as a demand of Christian discipleship, which seems to be in fashion again in certain circles. Not at all Jesus' message, and nothing like his life (which was seen as dangerously rebellious to the religious leaders and community of his day). It's as bad as individualism, in my opinion, if not worse. And I think the history of institutional churches (and intentional Christian communities) with their suppression and abuses committed against rebels in "the community," bears out my concerns.
I agree with your observation that Paul called people to be the church, to live up to "who they are." But then he was preaching to people who had no concept of the church, who were just learning what it was. We, on the other hand, do have a concept of church, based on our experience of the multitude of churches on every street corner (often two or three on a street corner). And our concept is usually wrong, severely distorted (perverted?) by the institutional "incarnations" of the church that are often not the Body at all. So I think our preaching has to be different now, at least breaking down false views first, by contrasting them with the truth about the Body of Christ.
And don't we see some of that in later writings about the church? For example, in Revelation, this passage that I think fits a lot of our American churches quite well:
And then there's Jesus' words in John's gospel (which also appeared later than Paul's writings):
Which emphasizes that the crucial part is being connected with Jesus, since he is the source of fruit and life. He is the vine; we can be part of that, but we never determine the nature or fruit of the vine. If we move away from him then we are cut off, no longer part of the vine (though we are welcome to return). We can't drag the vine down with us; the vine is Christ. But we can separate ourselves.
Isn't that what Jesus is warning us about when he says, "Apart from me you can do nothing"?
By the way, I just noticed (maybe I'm slow): Both Jesus and Paul use the imagery of marriage when talking about our relationship... to Jesus. We are committed in a marriage-like relationship to Jesus. We are not married to the church. We as the church are married to Jesus, made one flesh with Jesus, but again the commitment and faithfulness is to Jesus. Not to the church. Isn't that a significant difference?
And perhaps such experiences help us see the difference between faithfulness to "the bridegroom" Jesus and our limited commitments to places or church organizations.